Alternatives to Church Weddings

Livingston Green is a small village, but that doesn’t mean that we don’t see our fair share of Weddings here.

Whether you’re a Methodist or not, you’re always welcome to get married here in our lovely church.

When it comes to the notion of sharing we take the lessons of Luke 3:11 very seriously: ‘And he answered them, “Whoever has two tunics is to share with him who has none, and whoever has food is to do likewise.”’

However, if you find the idea of a traditional church wedding to be a little predictable, then take your special day to a more alternative venue. If you’re living locally, why not check out these ideas for unusual wedding venues in North Wales?

We may seem like a fairly traditional institution from the outside, but the Methodists here in Livingston Green are surprisingly forward thinking, when it comes to weddings. Unlike some of the other Christian denominations in England, we take a relaxed approach to how we get married. The most important thing is that two people are allowed to celebrate their union – in a way that honours the Lord, as well as each other.


Here are a few ideas with what you could do on your special day…

Take It Outside

Psalm 96:12 says: ‘Let the fields be jubilant, and everything in them; let all the tree of the forest sing for joy.’

Although a church wedding might well be the first requirement on most prospective couple’s agenda, taking the service outside into the majesty of the great outdoors could well be the thing to elevate your special day to the next level.

Public parks are often open to services taking place in their grounds, you can also consider National Trust sites or even a particularly scenic spot in the countryside – just make sure it’s a summer wedding!


Make It Public

Colossians 3:14 says: ‘And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.’

Many would argue that a wedding should be a private affair – something shared between the closest of family and friends. Of course, there was a time when they used to be very much the opposite. Why not engage your entire community and make it a day for hundreds to remember?

If you live in a village, hold the service in the square and invite everyone in the neighbourhood. If you’re a city dweller, you could consider holding a street party – just as long as there are lots of people.


Keep It Small

John 4:12 says: ‘No one has ever seen God; but if we love another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.’

This might seem antecedent to the previous idea, but there’s no reason why they can’t work in tandem. Save on costs for the service and get together just the closest members of your circle. By only inviting your most cherished friends and family members you can make the service a real moment to remember.

After you’re done with the official business you can bring the rest of the wedding party together at a larger venue to celebrate en masse. Don’t worry about other missing out on the service – most people are just there for the party anyway…


Make It Retro

Fashion trends in weddings come and go – but there’s one fad that will always be in vogue. Have you ever stumbled upon an old photo of your parents or grandparents on the day of their wedding and thought how cool they look? Its not just the illusion of Black and White photography, weddings might well have been more fun back in the 20th century.

Take a truly alternative approach to your wedding and ban all kinds of modern technology. Hire a DJ with real vinyl, take away the smartphones and waltz back into the past for a day with vintage suits and dresses.


If you’re thinking of planning a wedding or need some ideas about your day, just message us on the Contact page!

Finding New Ways To Engage Young Methodists

Over the course of ten years, the total membership of Methodists in the UK has diminished by over 100,000.

This isn’t a scare tactic.

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Nor is this number the result of gross manipulation of statistics.

Taken from the Statistics for Mission report, produced by Alan Piggot (Research Officer for the Methodist Church), this number was not plucked from thin air.

Since 2002, the Methodist Church has been actively collecting data for their Statistics for Mission, with the aim of assessing the number of people actively involved in the UK’s Methodist community.

A single ‘pro forma’, the standard form that is required to be filled in by each Church, requires 108 unique pieces of information to be filled in.

With nearly around 4,600 local churches spread across the length and breadth of England, the total data collated stacks up to a staggering 188,905 separate records. This is the amount of data that is collected and analysed by the Church every year. As a result, there are now over 20 millions individual records at researchers disposal to.

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Of course, statistics can often be misleading.

Indeed return rates from churches were initially low at around 85%. This would have significantly skewed results and given us Methodists some hope that there were perhaps more of us, simply choosing to go uncounted. However, these rates have since improved, with a 99% return rate recorded in 2013.

The results are now conclusive. Taken on average, the Methodist Church has been losing around 9,000 members a year, since records began in 2002. Let us not forget the words that John Wesley wrote in 1986:

“I am not afraid that the people called Methodists should ever cease to exist. However, I am afraid lest they should only exist as a dead sect, having the form of a religion without the power.”

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The only question now is, what are we going to do about it?

We need to be devising new ways to engage people from all backgrounds to visit their local Methodist Church and become part of the community. For the last month, we have been conducting meetings and discussion groups, to brain storm ideas on how best to do this. Here are some of the few ideas we’ve come up with so far:

Engage Educational Establishments

Luke 11:9 says: “And I tell you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”

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Mimicking companies in America, who are always looking for news ways to market to college students, we need to be getting amongst school and college kids, raising awareness of Methodism. Getting involved in Open Days and offering counselling are just a few examples of what we could be doing.


Open Up Church Spaces

Acts 5:14 says: “And more than ever believers were added to the Lord, multitudes of both men and women…”

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Earlier this year it was proven that communal experiences, such as Pokemon Go, could successfully lure young people into church spaces. By paying closer attention to current recreational trends, the Church could open up safe spaces for young people to enjoy at their own leisure.


Social Media Experts

Mark 16:15 says: “And He said to them, ‘Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.'”

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Part of our responsibility as Methodists is to spread the word of the Lord, through any means necessary. Standing out on the pavements, attempting to wrangle unwitting members of the public, is no longer a viable option. Social Media is the most efficient method of outreach in the 21st century and it’s one that we need to be making better use of.


However we choose to approach the matter- we need to act decisively to bring more members into the fold. This is no longer an issue that can be ignored. 

Livingston Green’s Political Views

The Congregation of Livingston have spoken.

Aleppo’s New Aid Appeal, Good Samaritans Offering Sanctuary and Benefits Caps in Britain…

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Good samaritans come in all shapes and sizes.

Although Livingston Green may often feel like it’s far removed from the troubles and issues of the modern day world, we are not completely ignorant. We have internet connections and we do use them!

Over the course of the last few months, there has been an increasing amount of discussion of topical matters in our Church Services. It appears that our congregation have been galvanised by the current political climate, so we thought it would be a good idea to get some of these opinions out in the open.

There may well be a precedent set for keeping Religion and Politics separate, but we’re a liberal bunch and believe that the two will forever be intertwined. So without further ado, let’s get to it!


Trump & Immigration

Galatians 6:2 says: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

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There was widespread outcry after Donald Trump was elected as the next President of the United States. But the outrage wasn’t strictly limited to the States.

Members of Livingston Green’s community were also found to be angry at the result and worried about the outcome for the thousands of Central American immigrants who could soon be at risk of deportation.

Village Store shop keep, Mavis, had this to say: “Hundreds of Churches and Synagogues across the United States have pledged their commitment to offering sanctuary to those poor, lost people, but I’m still worried for them. I’d let them into my home in a heartbeat.”


bENEFIT CAPS COULD hARM fAMILIES

Hebrews 13:16: “And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.”

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At the start of November a new cap was introduced by the UK government, intended to provide recipients of benefits with a ‘clear incentive to move into a new job’. The cap was decried by many as an outright attack on the most vulnerable people in our society.

Although Livingston Green is mostly a well-off community, that gets by without the aid of government aid, the plight of young families and single mother’s still struck a chord with the congregation here.

Sheep farmer and choir member, Gerald, raised this point: “The government exists in this country to help it’s citizens. By forcing the hands of thousands of young Mothers across Britain, the politicians are putting children’s growth and development in peril.”


oNGOING sYRIAN CRISIS

Proverbs 3:27 says: Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act.”

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Since the beginning of the conflict in 2011, the community of Livingston Green has been deeply saddened by the loss of human life in Syria. The lack of empathy or support offered from major world powers has also led to a deep well of sympathy for those displaced by the war.

Amongst all the ongoing topical issues in the news, it is the Syrian Conflict (in addition to the ensuing Migrant Crisis) that has drawn the most discussion amongst the congregation here in Livingston Green.


Unanimously, the community here stands firmly in support of the men, women and children whose lives have been irrevocably damaged by this devastating conflict.

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