STARTER
(In pairs for 5 minutes)
What do you most enjoy doing with friends?
WORSHIP
READ PASSAGE ALOUD
(Imagine Jesus saying this to you. How does it feel?)
RE-READ PASSAGE AND COMMENTARY
(Personal reflection)
PERSONAL FOCUS
(Personal reflection on the passage / commentary & questions in silence 10 minutes)
COMMENTARY
Jesus makes it clear that his leaving is not everything. He promises that his disciples will live on in his love by keeping the commandments. He promises them joy in their continual union, and he is glad to call them friends. Jesus reminds them that he has made known to them all that he has heard from the Father. The challenge for them is to go forward and bear fruit by loving one another. God sent his only Son that "we might have life through him." Others are to have life through us. In Acts, Peter comes to realise that this gift is to be extended to the uncircumcised Gentiles as well as Jews. Anyone who reverences God and acts according to God's will is acceptable to God. [Baranowski]
Lord, we have come at your own invitation,
Chosen by you, to be counted your friends;
Yours is the strength that sustains dedication,
Ours a commitment we know never ends. H & P 700
PERSONAL FOCUS QUESTIONS
(Initially just reflect on the question that chooses you. It may help to clarify your thinking to make notes in the spaces provided. This will also give you material to reflect on in the future)
1. What verse in this reading speaks to you? What is God saying to you?
2. When in the last two weeks did you recognise God's love in your life?
3. As you reflect on Jesus calling you his friend, what thoughts and feelings come to you?
How might you respond this week?
PERSONAL FOCUS QUESTIONS
(Discuss in triplets / pray for each other -25 minutes)
LIFE FOCUS
(Discuss in whole group-15 minutes)
4. How could you become better friends with other Christians in your community?
5. What practical outcome is there from our reflection?
Do we need to make any plans to make things happen?
GROUP MEMORY TIME
(Review the actions you agreed to carry out at previous meetings)
REVIEW TIME
Do you feel loved and respected in this group?
What would you like to do differently next time
PRAYER TIME
You could pray for obedience to be faithful to Jesus.
You could pray for the friendless in society and your community